Finding the love of your life book read 47 reviews from the worlds largest community for readers ten proven principles for choosing the right marriage. The 6 step guide to finding and keeping the love of your life 1 wake up and start living one of the biggest mistakes many people make is to daydream about their goals in life 2 open your eyes we tend to believe we have to search far and beyond to find love we think we need to meet lots . Perhaps you feel youre not in control of your love life or that you keep attracting the wrong people these feelings and fears are valid but take that time to work on yourself because in my practice fulfilling relationships are created when two individuals are independently ready to find love. Without fear doubt does not exist the only things that exist are your enjoyment of the moment and the person that you love exes only appear in your memories as a necessary learning experience in your life and opportunity to keeping growing nothing more 2 you do not have to talk constantly love is safety trust and authenticity you feel comfortable loved and silence becomes your best friend because you can fill your hearts and communicate everything with just a glance